Imagine a recalcitrant 8 year old child who refuses to go to school. Both his parents work, outside the home. But the child would have nothing to do with waking up early and going to school. The parents offered several options; mum will take you, dad will take you, mum and dad will take you, you will ride to school with the neighbor, you will go with the school bus. The child does not like any of these choices, because the child doesn't want to go to school. Well, the parent took the kid to school, and the kid made a great funk at school - And here is the kicker, everyone blamed the parents for lack of leadership!